People are always worried about Where I can Find My Happiness and how to become a big gun. But perhaps they don’t know that you never need to go any outer circle of the world to find it. It is within yourself, just you need to change some habits, respect the time, emotions and Dream Big to achieve limitless happiness.
Throughout my childhood, a common phrase, I used to hear was, “Don’t have big dreams; they are just for rich people not for us.”
Work Hard Dream Big
Even as a child, I have been dreaming about success.
I remember as kids, I and my cousin excitedly used to chat about our fantasies.
We would eat Chocolate to our heart’s content from our father’s chocolate factory, have a pair of new uniforms and dresses every day and will always move around in our chauffeur drove luxury vehicles.
Of course, we became more realistic as we grew up, but the dreamer in me never died. Although, dreaming is the first process. But as they say, dreaming without any Action (to achieve the dreams) is just visual thinking which might never come to life.
So, our mantra should always be ”Work Hard Dream Big”
“All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.” –Walt Disney
It is really easy to become eclipsed by our current situation or surrounding. As they compel us to believe, that it may be possible for others, but not for me. The lone thing that is keeping us from accomplishing anything in life is- ourselves.
The above list doesn’t enable us to achieve what we desire.
But, in all this, you need to be clear about a few things: what are your dreams and what is the reason behind it? Why do you want to achieve them so badly?
The clearer you are about these questions, the more you will feel the need to achieve them.
Talking from personal experience, in the journey of achieving your dreams: you change as a person. So, read the blog till the end to find out some great points on “how you can achieve all your dreams”.
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One of the crucial changes you develop is: Change in the Mindset or Attitude. Your belief system improves and you constantly strive to become a more optimistic person.
The best book which helped me to change my attitude the book- Attitude is Everything.
One creative way of overpowering the negative thought is, “Imagine it (negative thought) to be a Mosquito and you hit it as soon as it creeps into your mind.
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“Life without a destination is like, a life without direction”, where you just walk aimlessly (wherever you see route) without the realization of, where you’re heading to.
Along the path of reaching for our dreams, we tend to become more focused.
But, I agree that in the 21st Century, we induce a big problem focusing on one thing for a long time (thanks to the numerous gadgets), however, two things that have helped me immensely are: Meditation and Removing Distractions.
To avoid distractions: Switch off your TV and most importantly, keep your cellphone on ‘Flight mode’ if you are not expecting any important call or at least close your social media friends like What’s App, Facebook, YouTube, etc.
Big dreams eventually allow us to eliminate procrastination from our lives and incorporate timely actions. As we are focused on our goals, we usually set a time to finish the task and customarily complete it.
The best method to accomplish any big goal is to divide them into smaller clumps.
Ex- If your aspiration is to go to Europe next year, makes an estimate and set about saving a certain amount every month beginning today or start a mutual fund for your travel may be for twelve months.
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Dreaming is a desire that comes from within. Because it is our dream, it ignites a passion within us and we should strive hard to achieve them.
Along the way, we may definitely encounter numerous challenges, however, always remember that these challenges make you stronger and they are like a stepping stone ultimately helping you to stretch to the milestone.
Let Go ‘Fear’
As I said earlier, most people do not achieve their dreams due to multiple reasons, one of being: fear (fear of failure or fear of rejection).
Merely, the history proves that anyone who has accomplished anything, in life or reached the great height, has done it after many failures and overcoming his fears. Whenever you fear something- Just think, ‘I can do it’ and just take action.
People say, daydreaming is bad; however, visualizing your goals would actually bring you closer to your dreams.
But an important point to remember is that none of your dreams will come true unless you put action to make it a reality.
Writing your goals on a piece of paper and visualizing the end result would help you to achieve them faster.
As it has been said in the movie: Om Shanti Om- “Agar kissi cheez ko dil se chaho, toh purri kaynat use tumse mil wane mein lag jaati hai.” (Translation: “If you really desire something, the whole Universe will conspire to give it to you.”)
So friends, do not be scared to dream… DREAM BIG and work on it.